Pass the Salt» Posted on 29 May 2012 • Pass the Salt
Have you heard of active listening? Active listening recognises that communication is not all about the one talking, it’s also about the listener who works to understand what is being said. Active listening is quite hard work, even though it appears as though you’re doing nothing.
Courageous active waiting is in the same arena. Perhaps we have a vision or passion for something, but don’t know what to do or where to go with it. In these times we engage in courageous active waiting.
The courage comes from resisting the temptation to give up, or to ‘make it happen’. So often we fear missing the opportunity, fear losing the vision and growing cold, we see the problem clearly and know the solution needed to happen yesterday...many things can make it extremely compelling to just do something! And if we can’t, we are tempted to give up as too hard.
There is a third option. If it’s not yet right to act openly, then act privately – pray a lot, research the issue, find partners who share the vision or who can add to and refine the vision, keep the issue alive between yourself and God in a way that leaves the initiative in his hands. He will act when he is ready, and when he judges that you are ready.
Great works of God were often done through people who had proven themselves diligent and obedient when people weren’t there to see it. King David was able to kill Goliath because he and God had tackled lions and bears together defending his father’s sheep.
Later, King David would need to show a different kind of courage – to refuse to defend himself from Saul who sought his death. Even though he was anointed king to succeed Saul, David withheld his hand, trusting God to establish him as promised. But he was by no means idle in that time of waiting. God sent him the down-and-outs, the disgruntled and disaffected people to govern, which was perfect preparation in trusting God when governing a nation of warring tribes.
In a world that worships the strength of our arm, the use of our own skills and resources to solve problems and to make our way in the world relying on nothing or no one, we must champion an attitude of active waiting that honour’s God our provider and protector, so that we are ready for the Lord’s timing.» Posted on 26 Jan 2012 • Pass the Salt
Pass the Salt - 25 January 2012
I declare this year the Year of the Relationship.
What does this mean? It means our planning for the year is going to be focused on promoting the essential place of relationships in our lives.
This of course is no surprise to you. It’s all part of our intention to promote and develop the Nucleus Groups for Chapel Hill as a complement to other relationship-building times such as Life Groups and Sunday Encounters (my name for ‘church services’).
Do you have some ideas on this? What would you like to see done, e.g. a marriage enrichment weekend? Think outside the square, and get radical...and be willing to engage in helping pull this off because sometimes the best relationship-forming times are those when we’re working elbow to elbow on something worth doing!
I’m looking forward to hearing your thoughts and ideas.
Praise God who hears our prayers
On Sunday night, a large gathering of Chapel Hill members joined in prayer for those ill and suffering in our congregation. One of those prayed for is fighting against the swift onset of cancer. So swift and aggressive is this cancer that doctors were unsure whether our friend - whom we shall call John for privacy's sake - would stabilise to the point of even receiving treatment.
But, praise God for the miracle that has occurred – for it can only be a miracle. On Monday John had another series of blood tests to plot his progress. Not being a doctor, I don’t know exactly what they are looking for, except that his ‘blood levels’ were very high, and needed to come down dramatically. John returned to hospital Tuesday for the results only to find an amazed medical team – his blood results were extraordinarily good and well beyond expectations. Treatment can begin now with a hope of good results.
This is amazing. This is our God. Praise him for his love, and his power to overturn the impossible and transcend natural limitations. Pray with increased faith for greater works for all those among us who are suffering, struggling and are seeking God’s saving power to be made known in the here and now.
To request prayer, we have a prayer form on-site or contact Paddy in the office who can do this for you.» Posted on 23 Jan 2012 • Pass the Salt
7 December 2011
Christmas – where did you come from?
Are you getting the feeling that Christmas has just appeared out of the gloom of life without warning?
Suddenly the season is upon us again whether we’re ready for it or not.
If it has come upon you with speed, it may be time to grab some ‘reflection’ time. The power of reflection is in helping us gain some perspective. With a better perspective, we can make responsible decisions about our priorities. Good questions to ask are:
How much time am I giving to my relationships?
How am I showing my family they come first at the moment?
Where is my joy coming from?
If I could change one thing about my life today, what might it be?
Christmas is a season of promise – that in Jesus, God is returning to us, his loved ones those things we have lost. He offers himself as the means to restore us to relationship with him, the power to find love, joy and peace in the trials of life, to free us from those patterns of life and thought that bind us.
Christmas may have come upon you fast – like it has for me – but it needn’t pass us by as quickly. All it takes to receive some measure of the peace God offers is actively taking hold of some time to reflect with God.
21 November 2011
Nucleus the powerhouse of any organism
There’s an old saying, “you can’t see the forest for the trees” to make the point that you can’t see the big picture if you’re too focused on the details.
That being true, the other truth is all forests are made up of individual trees and if you want to strengthen the forest, you need to focus on strengthening each plant. If the church is the forest, then we are each the trees that make up the forest. To strengthen the church then is about helping each other grow.
This is the principle behind our ‘spiritual formation’ groups, which are our Life Groups and the newly launched Nucleus Groups. Nucleus Groups are being introduced because of their microscope-like focus. By contrast, Life Groups are like mini-greenhouses creating wonderful nurturing environments that help people gain health and grow strong together, but we can also need more one-on-one attention.
Unlike plants though, we humans have free will. Though God may seek to prune and shape us, or provide nutrients to inspire new growth, we can reject the gardener’s attention. We can even get really good at doing this within a greenhouse environment, appearing to grow while actually resisting the pruning and shaping of the gardener.
A Nucleus Group is about eye-balling one or two other people and answering the hard questions and being held to what we say. It’s a great way to cut through our avoidance tactics. It will be uncomfortable at times, but can lead to new growth where we may have grown stuck and stagnant. If that sounds like something you want, or need, then see who wants to join you on that journey...be careful, it might be life changing.
9 November 2011
What Rex said
Haggai chapter one is expressive of a truth we have all experienced and wondered at – when things should be getting better, they seem to be growing worse.
There can be a sense of quiet despair at times: a passion for food doesn’t hit the spot, fashion is only as satisfying as the moment of purchase, and we live according to the salary we have ensuring our bills increase with our income. No matter what we pursue, it’s never enough.
John D Rockefeller, oil magnate of the last 1800s and possibly the world’s richest man since Solomon, was once asked how much money was enough. He thought for a moment and said, ‘just a little bit more.’
The Teacher of Ecclesiastes addresses the same questions of life. Many believe the author is King Solomon reflecting on a life lived to the maximum, fuelled by endless wealth and the God-given wisdom to apply it. He even applied himself to madness and folly hoping to find a path of meaning. His conclusion? Everything is passing, fleeting, a vapour and the only hope is to seek God and obey him while you can. Jesus said something similar in John 6:29 (last Sunday’s reading), ‘the work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent.’
Rex’s conclusion from Haggai chapter one was a call to build a precious space in our lives for God; we are the new temple of God, and he wishes to inhabit our everyday. What did God’s Spirit speak to you about on Sunday? How does he want you to create space for him as the temple of God?